stupidity 1: Believe on the passionate love at first sight. An interest which was so strong at the first meeting is nice, but love developed in accordance with time, and not through a glance or 1-2 times for dinner. When at the first meeting you already have a little feeling of interest, there is no harm in doing the next meeting.
Remember, you can not judge a person if the first time to meet and get acquainted because usually someone is still awkward on a first date. Love at first sight only in myth. Therefore, it is important to recognize and provide the opportunity for some people. Being open can be an important step to find the right partner.
stupidity 2: Falling in love with someone who is already bound. Unable to blame if you fall in love with someone who is sympathetic, has a strong appeal, smart talk, but believe me. You will suffer when going out with someone who is not one hundred percent committed to yourself and never there when you need it.
No matter if you say that you do not need someone to be a hundred percent ready for you. In fact, you'll still feel sad. We recommend extending the association, join discussion groups, or courses of a field of interest. Open yourself to meet new people.You deserve to be loved, loved, cared for and cared about.
stupidity 3: Does not tell the people closest that you are looking for a lover.When bored and tired with the solitude you, tell the people closest that you want to have someone who is more than just friends. No need to be shy.
When you closed, not necessarily the people closest to understand your wishes. They could have thought, you really enjoy your solitude. By saying the desire to people nearby, without realizing it, you'll be busy receiving an invitation from the people closest to attend the dinner or to attend social events of Events.
Ignorance 4: Ignoring the dangers that have been jelas2 visible. Have your say "He's great though a heavy drinker," or "He's very interesting, it seems appropriate to me, but he's a playboy." "He's steady, but it was not virgin" When you fall in love is easy to ignore the basic problems that could threaten the future of a serious relationship. Each time you go out with him, you always ignore the problem.
If there are things the principle that you feel, talking to him. Ask questions. Consider whether the reason he gave you can accept, reasonable, and are not an issue for long term serious relationship.But if he is not interested to be bound by a serious long-term relationship, leave him.
Maybe you still be friends, but do not waste time for someone like him. Open heart to someone else, who knows without you knowing it, there are friends of friends or old friends who were interested and likes you. When you fall in love, prioritizing your priorities and stick firmly to the principle that has been determined that you are not disappointed.
